Fix or Enable ........

Are you a fixer? Do you want to make things right for everyone around you? Take a step back.....and look at the person and the problem you are attempting to fix. If you help them fix it this time, will there be a next time and a next....if so you may be enabling them to continue in their same behavior. If you make it right for them all the time what lesson is learned. The only thing they learn from it is; you will always fix it and there are very few consequences for them, the person with the problem. Helping others is ALWAYS important. Enabling them to continue down their  same road of irresponsible, negative or destructive behavior is not.