The fact is....

Do you know the difference between a problem and a fact? We can solve our problems by making changes to either how we think or how we act. Facts are something we can do nothing about; so why do we spend energy worrying about ot trying to change them? We should apply energy to only those things we can change. It is important to remember we CANNOT change another person. That is a fact. The person has to want to change. Often we want the change more than they do and we spend our good energy on something we ourselves are incapable of  making happen. Choose how you spend your energy wisely. Do not let yourself be drained by people that do not have the desire to grow and change. Your energy is what helps you rise to your highest potential. Make sure the people around you empower and uplift your energy level.