In or Under?

Interesting how being in control and under control get misinterpreted. Insecurity and the need to prove your worth are usually characteristics of people who want others to believe they are "in control". They will go to someone else for the answers,  but then represent the knowledge as their own. Those who are "under control" do not feel the need to prove they have the answers. It is reflected in the people who come in and out of their life daily seeking counsel. It is provided without fuss, the need for recognition or glory.   Instead of pretending to be in control, they model in their daily walk being under control. There is a difference.... one is a pretender. You can only pretend to be in control for so long before the truth reveals itself.