I choose to consciously live from the abundant place that I am love and loved. This is so much easier to say than do. However, by doing this I don't find myself begging others for scraps of love.
It starts with letting my guard down and not projecting the rejection others spin my way personally. I tend to own everything. Everyone's problems, everyone's hurts... everyone's desires and try to fix or help them. Then feel the sting of rejection when the person I am serving doesn't come from the same place or makes little to no effort in the space I give them.
In all honesty, I must remember I have done years of work on love.... being unconditional love in difficult situations... being grace or mercy when the situation needs it. So why does it hurt when my actions are rejected on unappreciated? I am human. I need to cut myself some of that grace I am doling out and not walk away or let in the rejection of being uninvited or even unwanted pierce my heart. It is not why God opened the door for me to be in the situation.
Do you do life as you are loved and loving today or do you live in fear of rejection? Do you project all the past years of neglect, hate or discontent on the people you are currently in relationship with? Can I encourage you to pause, breathe....reflect and see that person for the love and the light they are working to abundantly rain into your life?
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